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I am on my high at the moment. No, it is not the caffeine, Doctora! Nor the Belgian chocolate I just have taken advantaged of. It is quite easy to explain but not easy to understand for people who have not yet experienced the true meaning of love and marriage. I don't want to start and cry now, of happiness, of exaltation, of contentness, of feelings of being blessed. It is heart touching, elating, succumbing to every spoilness it represents, the wave of love, the spring of happiness and the endless questions of "will it ever really last?"! Ha ha ha ha, my laugh echoes through my mind.

I believe in marriage. The marriage I have seen my parents was volatile, intensed and highly emotional. I see my mother as the strength, my father the colorfullness, and together they balanced each other. I cannot say it was a perfect marriage. But I admired it in a way that my parents sticked it through thick and thin. That I would have like to have the same experience when I marry. I feel blessed. I thank my parents for their loving, god-fearing, responsible parenthood. It was strict in my point of view, but their concern and love put me where I am now.

It was not an easy sailing boat upstream and down stream. I myself made a lot trials and error before I was able to discover the right way to go, and what are the warning signs I have to look out for.

1) A real gentleman never lets a gentle woman pay the bill, in all sense of the word.

2) A real man waits his que, delivers his timing in an appropriate way, always considering the

womans emotional state. In short, very respectful, but strike his decisiveness at a perfect

timing.

3) A wonderful man always consider himself last. A true gentleman.

4) A true man, listens not just with the ears but also with the heart. And that whatever bad thing you have done for whatever reason, he will try to understand.

5) An exceptional man will help you on what ever trouble you are and keep by your side until

the time everything has been normalised.

6) A man with true intention will accept anything about you, would want to know anything about you, will accept any bad thing that you have done, however grim and dark it is, that when you tell him he would understand you...

Hahaha...who am i kidding about? Is this just a wisp of my imagination? There is no such man!!!

Sorry to dis appoint you, but there is, but you have to deserve his faith, his respect, his love and his fidelity even in the outmost undeserved way!

Happy hunting if ever you haven't found him yet!