Thursday, May 27, 2010

Life as four seasons

I received so much inspiration from Silva when she wrote me a lovely letter yesterday. Saying let us not dwell in the passed and move on, as the season changes, do not be winter when it is already summer...that enjoying life for the essense of the moment is most wonderful at present.
As Ozzie said to Jose, "sweet words, but he is on diet", does give me a shake that living at the present, and not in the pass nor in the future makes us more humans...
to laugh at your own joke, eat your own cake, have the surprise on you!
Life is wonderful at it's changing seasons...

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

You choose your friends

There is nothing as important as chosing your friends. Good friends, that can have very good influence on you, brings the best out of you, lifts up your spirits and respects you. Pretty scary to find perfect friends, in this non perfect world, when everything has imperfections. In my definition, good friends are not the same or equal to best friends. Good friends knows what is the right thing to say and do without words or actions. Difficult, but you will know when you find and chooses them. Funny, I have only one good friend...the rest are just merely friends. At least, I have gotten myself one.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Men likes feminine women...

Well, I could be generelizing! But in my experience, men wants to be the boss and to have the last say in the relationship. Once the women makes the stand and put down the foot, then the man seems to disappear to the next available feline woman.
Why?
It is of nature, what a cheap excuse, but it is a fact that the man is strongest in nature. I know a lot of feminist would be sad about this comment, I myself, a feminist, would have felt so, but I do accept the fact that my man has to take charge and take care of his, and if he cannot then for me he is not man enough. Then I leave to the next available masculine i could find who can take care of his! He he he, sounds good, heh?
A strong man knows when to ply himself in a woman's whim, that is his inner strength. A toast for man!

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Flirt

For the third time today iwas flashed at! What a compliment! One wants to have my number, second one wants to have an instant relationship and the third one wants a date! I must be dreaming!
Well, the first Rosie shooed away, the second one is an engineer and cute, but i shooed away and the third one, my he is one sweet thing, but good Loordie, I have to say no to all temptation costly or for free! ;-) I have one troublesome man at home already and he is one big enough headache!

Mary in Control

I have grown up! I can say no to all temptations...with one exception! You may guess what it is but i am not going to say. If you would ask for clue? Something you that you can use on rainy days!

Friday, May 21, 2010

A choice

So wonderful life is that we are given a choice!

Dream...dream...

So when you sleep, do you ever dream? If you did, can you remember?
"Mary, mary so contrary!" Was the first words I was complimented with by the local Diakon, female priest, in Sweden. That was twenty years ago! Time flew so fast I have to ask my au pair to show me how to start a blogg. I was so envious of those girls who has one...